Hello Sharon

We are most happy to speak with you this evening.  

MOST TIMES YOU DO NOT NEED YOUR BRAIN TO MAKE A SITUATION BETTER!    It does not need to be “figured out” by you!  Remember we have spoken often of the Universal energy system which is vast and powerful and is at your disposal ALL OF THE TIME!

Therefore, with all of these items you have had happen recently, we suggest the following:

1.      Acknowledge that you are mis-creating

2.      Declare what you do NOT want

3.      Declare what you DO want

4.      RELAX

5.      Feel grateful that what you want is already on its way to you, UNCONDITIONALLY

6.      Realize that you do not need to be “good enough” or “deserving” or do anything in particular in order to receive/manifest what you desire!

7.      ALLOW IT TO COME TO YOU, and allow yourself to experience it!

For often the first 3 steps are easy.  Then humans remain tense and alert and feel that they must notice every little thing or they will not get the guidance they desire from spirit.  THEY ARE KEEPING THE GUIDANCE FROM THEM BY THE VERY ACT OF REMAINING TENSE! 

In fact, if we were to list these steps in order of “importance”, we would list relaxing as a very top step, right next to allowing.  For relaxing is a hard thing for many humans to master, especially when one is LOOKING at what is NOT going right in their lives!    The idea of relaxing, while the world around you is crumbling, is often met with rolled eyes and an attitude of disbelief.   It is often felt that “the universe just does not understand when it tells me to relax, as there is too much negative going on right now, I will relax later, when things are going smoother”.

Do you see and feel how this happens often?  Do you now see and feel how this is not helpful and keeps you tense and WITHIN THE MIS-CREATION?  The more you FIGHT to keep the mis-creation, the more you will keep it!  No one is forcing you to lay your mis-creation aside and accept what you truly desire NOW.  Therefore, when you fight and struggle with the universe and say “you are not right, I am not able to lay this aside immediately, it takes pills to heal this, or time to heal this, or money to make this better…” and on and on and on, you are simply teaching YOURSELF what you believe and are reinforcing it.

The universe will never say “no you are wrong, you cannot create that belief”, for all beliefs are the same.  One is not better than another, except in how that belief affects you… how do you FEEL about this belief?  If you feel strongly that it is “right”, then you will continue to re-create it.  The universe will not argue with you.  It will not try to prove you wrong, for you are NOT wrong.  You can create whatever you wish.  

You are SO powerful, that you can make yourself appear to have no power at all.  That is the ultimate in power!  You are able to USE your OWN power to diminish your own power.  Amazing, is it not?

So, when you catch yourself justifying why you are mis-creating, realize that you are only DOING THIS WITH YOURSELF.  You are not trying to justify it to the universe, for the universe does not need convincing.  It will always agree with you and, in essence, say “yes, you are always right, as you will always create that which will support your beliefs, that is how powerful you are”.

Most humans have a need to be “backed up” by some outside source.  They use it as an excuse to bury their power.  If they do not have another human they can pull into their mis-creation, they will use God or the universe to do it with.  “It must just be the way things are…” or “god has a plan for my life, which is why this bad thing happened”  or “I must not have been a good enough person or this wouldn’t have happened”…

Do you feel how all of these statements, and many more besides, are disempowering?  It is a belief system, and an excuse, all rolled up into one.  It is a way of NOT accepting your true power, for if you accept it, you must begin to create what you desire, and must take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for your mis-creations.

Now, we will segue into your question about how to handle it when people do not believe we are speaking through you. 

Of course you know that what others say and think does not truly matter to your creation, except to say that they ARE YOUR CREATION.  We know this has gotten to you, logically, but once again you have not taken this to a FEELING level.

It is entirely up to you on if you wish to create beings who appreciate and value our work together, or experiences where you are faced with rejection and distrust.  We realize this seems to be a simple statement:  “you are creating this, do not create it any more”  <laughter>

So, we will delve into it a bit further to help to clarify what we are suggesting in this area.

When you create a mis-creation such as having someone not believe that what you are doing is valuable, or how you are behaving is enjoyable, or what you believe as truth.. or any such occurrence where you are less than joyful with the words, energy and attitude coming from “others”….  You immediately begin to doubt yourself.

THIS IS A VERY GOOD THING!  This is usually, however, where you shut down and say “I am doubting myself, that is bad, I must not be feeling and hearing what I thought I was…” and more.   Then your past creations come to mind, and you begin to formulate more PROOF that your doubts are founded, and that you are not being true or good or deserving, etc.

What you have done, once again, is taken a TOOL and given it the title of MASTER.  You have taken a very useful device, such as the mirroring technique, to show you a part of yourself that is, indeed, in doubt.  Instead of saying “well, it’s there, it’s in control, I have no power over it, might as well throw in the towel”, try a different avenue of energy…

Next time say “ah yes, I see.. I am feeling some doubt, which is why I am using this fine friend to demonstrate it to me.. now… let me pour some love and acceptance onto that doubt and let it fully blossom and show me what it is here to show me…”.   Do you feel how you take every instance of distress and blow it up into something it does not mean to be or need to be?

Then you wonder why you get out of sorts and feel confused.  You are shoving your energy out to extremes of beliefs all over the place!  You are taking a small item such as self-doubt (which all humans have at varying degrees in various circumstances), and are making it into a huge problem, worthy of your total focus, attention and energy…

Then, another small mirror comes up to help you to see how you are also mis-creating (and yes, it is not your imagination, they come in groups.. not to distress you further, but to fully get your attention), and you look at this other mis-creation NOT WITH LEVITY but with anger and low energy.

We realize that levity seems difficult, at best, during times of distress and mis-creation, but we are telling you that that is the FASTEST and most genuine way to change the energy of mis-creations.   LAUGH at your mis-creations.  Say, “How amusing that I created that, once again, hello old friend, let us see if we can do something about moving you to a lighter, more enjoyable experience now…”  

You are into a time of pouring love onto items, and receiving love, and feeling the flow of love.  That is excellent.  We are of course going to suggest that you do this as well with any mis-creations (and with any creations!)  The flow of love is a POWERFUL FORCE!  The receiving of love onto any situation or experience, and ALLOWING IT TO DO WHAT IS THE HIGHEST SOLUTION FOR ALL, is quite a beautiful and joyful thing!

When you focus love, and then put limitations on it “I send love SO THAT I MAY HAVE…such and such” is a much limited energy and will not bring you the fullest and most expansive and beautiful experiences, as if you were to give LOVE free-reign.

Now that we have given you much in this area, we will move onto the area of why we call ourselves SAM.

You do not remember in human brain activity, but your feelings will bring you to a realization of what we are about to say.  We remind you of an energy you had at a very young age, a silent friend. 

You called your favorite tree Penelope after a movie you saw once where the woman was very sophisticated and joyful.    You do remember this, of course.  We now direct your energetic focus to this same time in your human life, when you were embraced by a spirit named Samantha.  You did not call her Sam, you called her Samantha, and you got this name from a television show about magic, Bewitched.

This was one of the first occurrences you felt where true internal magic was concerned.  You allowed this beautiful young woman, named Samantha, into your area of accepting magic within you.

Penelope was another such beautiful name that you gave your tree, and in fact is another spirit who is within this group we call Sam.  So, the “main” reason we call ourselves sam is a tribute of sorts, to the magic you first began to receive within yourself.  You are almost in tears now, as you know this information is coming from us, as you did not know this information before.  It is a touching moment of joy we are sharing with you now, and we are grateful you are allowing yourself to feel it and express it with us.

Of course you also know we use it as a reference to the great Dr. Seuss book Green Eggs and Ham, where the phrase is often used “Sam, I am”.  Because we are truly a part of your great “I am”, and we are the part of you which is open to receiving and acknowledging magic and miracles, we felt the “Sam, I am” reference to be a profound and joyful play on words, and statement of TRUTH!

You may call us anything you wish, but we feel affectionately towards the name Sam, and feel that you do as well, especially now that we have shared this communication and energy with you tonight.

You have asked us a profound question on the subject of fear, and as we have stated previously, we will be getting into perhaps an entire chapter on the subject of fear.  It is often misunderstood, and mislabeled.

However, for today, we will say that fear comes to you and FROM YOU for many different reasons.  IT IS ALWAYS A GIFT.

Even if it comes to you in the form of trying to keep you from something you would enjoy.  Such as a fear of water kept you from swimming for many years.  These are often given the term of “phobia” but it is just a fancy way of saying that you are afraid to do or experience something.

Oddly enough, these phobias are often simply areas you would deny yourself growth.  Therefore, any place where you feel these types of fears:  fear of flying, fear of water, fear of snakes, fear of dying, and more, are simply places where you can find the MOST growth and the most gifts!

You noticed we said the fear of dying, and looking directly at the fear of dying (which IS a phobia, just as the rest) will actually allow you to fully LIVE! 

So, that is one very helpful fear.. a phobia.  Look at your phobias carefully, joyfully, slowly if you wish.  Do not feel you must immediately BE the opposite of your phobia… if you are afraid of flying, do not immediately jump out of a plane.  Simply begin with the steps we outlined above and FEEL your way. 

The most frustrating of fears surrounds experiences you would like to create, and yet you have fears “holding you back”.  These can be in the form of fear of success, fear of failure, fear of appearing or sounding a certain way, fear of rejection, fear of this or that. 

These are the fears which feel the most powerful, as “they” are keeping you from your most cherished desires that you wish to be manifest.

Of course “they” are not something outside of yourself.  “they” are very much a part of your energy.  If you did not show yourself your fears, you would not realize, at a deep level, that which you TRULY desire the most!  For when it comes to your desires being manifest, those which would bring you the deepest and most lasting joy, are often the ones which appear to have the most fears surrounding it.  It seems hard to “get to”.

We once again, however, ask you to acknowledge them, thank them, and ask them to show you where you are mis-creating.  It is a process you will repeat over and again.  Do not feel badly about needing to repeat this process.  All creation comes in many layers, and when you have resolved it on one level, it will come to you on another.  It is growth.  Celebrate each time you stop yourself and begin the process of CONSCIOUS self-growth, such in the steps we laid out above.  Do not feel badly about “having to do it again”.  Celebrate your ABILITY to stop and be a conscious creator!

These tests that you create for yourself seem like pesky problems that you’d rather not have created, BUT THEY ARE NOT!  They are valuable tools to show you where you are growing, and areas where you still need to focus love, acceptance and a new, powerful energy.  Embrace the entire process, not just the “result”.  Just as the true joy in living is within the PROCESS of living, not within the reaching of goals.  Reaching of goals is a marvelous energy, and is celebrated into the entire universe.  And the process of attaining that goal is ALSO a celebration, though it often not felt as such by the one creating it.  Take the “time” to stop and feel the celebration along the way, even with the celebration of recognizing mis-creations.  For that is part of the wonderful process, is it not?  Celebrate it all.  Embrace it all.  Pour love upon it all.  And then begin more and more CONCIOUS creating.

We leave you with this for tonight, and will be very happy to speak with you again tomorrow.  As always, it is our pleasure.