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ME: Sam, I have questions about what to do in life right now, for instance, I have this work to get done this weekend on stuff for both schools, and yet I don’t want to do either one.. I want to talk with you, and enter sweepstakes, and read and watch television, and work out and relax and stuff like that… so when do we HAVE to do things we don’t want to, and when do we not? And how do we go about doing things we don’t like to do? Is it all in attitude or what?
SAM: We are pleased you have come to talk with us again so soon. This is great progress in your ability to focus on that which you desire and we applaud you.
In fact, it has much to do with the question you have asked. Your focus. Your desire. How do the two of these ideas meet and help you to the creation of your experiences? Your focus is often thought of as your “attention” and of course that is part of it. However, your focus is a direction in which your energy is flowing IN THIS MOMENT. Therefore, when we speak of focus we are speaking of directing your energy and your desire into THIS CURRENT MOMENT.
Of course many times you are directing your attention and your energy onto something that is NOT a desire, but instead a fear. You know, of course, that when you do this, you begin to draw that experience towards you as well.
Because of this, many are afraid to desire at all, fearful that whatever they think and focus upon will become reality, and even though a VERY small percentage of your thoughts and focused energy ever manifest into anything that is negative, most of you would still rather not “chance it”.
The truth is that the powerful energy force that is used to create is much more in alignment with what you would call “positive energy” (meaning, in alignment with joyful experiences). That is what uses the LEAST amount of focus and energy. However, as we spoke of yesterday, you are all assuming the worst, therefore many of your thoughts revolve around the worst-case-scenario and eventually that becomes the vibrational energy you emit, and then yes, it becomes manifest in your “reality”.
Now, let us get back to your specific question, and you will begin to see how this all comes together. You are asking if you must ever perform activities which you do not wish to do. That is one of the main vibrations we are getting from you right now in this, so we will address that first.
This may be difficult to hear and to process, but give yourself time and be easy with it. There is NOTHING that one “must” do in this experience. We realize this is contrary to almost everything you believe to be true. You “must” work to make money, you “must” take out the trash or it begins to smell, you “must” take a bath or shower or you are no longer clean, and so on.
Every one of these examples, and millions more, are simply the result of an accumulated lifetime of beliefs. We realize an answer such as this is not all that helpful, as you will now wonder “is there any point to asking this, as we do not know how to change millions of years of combined beliefs”, yes?
However, what you are not understanding in your experience yet is that you do not need to worry yourself over the beliefs of others! We realize this is also a strong statement and one in which you may not immediately agree. However, it is a great truth. It appears that humans are all on the same planet, using the same air, sharing the same resources, giving one another “their” money, accepting someone “else’s” money for a job you do, and more. There are so many games in play on the earth surface that illusion can shape-shift a situation so quickly, the exact same “facts” show differently for every single human who witnesses an event. In fact, no two humans will ever see and feel an event exactly the same. Ever. It is not possible, as you are all creating your own unique experience, which contains all of your “past” and “future” experiences, combined with your personality you have created, your guidance system feelings fetl at varying degrees, and more.
So, you are wondering where this “we are one” business comes into play, right? This is an enormous question and one in which we will come back to again and again. For today, let us say that you are indeed “one”. The idea of separation indicates that there is more than one creative energetic force. The creation process and energy is the same for all, and in fact includes the “energy” and participation of all. Therefore, to say ‘we are one” is actually redundant. It might be more accurate to say “we” IS “one”, do you feel the difference?
Now for the earth game, of course you have brought in the “rule” that you are separate entities, engaging in different forms of communication and joining and separation activities. That is part of the game. Within this game are many levels of energy which help you to determine who vibrates at your current level of creating force. Which is why you are drawn to different spirits at different times as they have set their energy vibration to, let us say, a formula of energy and information that equals “……” another has set their energy vibration to that same formula, which needs no name, and viola, you are “together”.
Now, keeping this equation in mind, realize that those whom you feel obligated to serve at this time, i.e., the students in your classes and the bosses at your jobs.. and EVEN the bill collectors who ask for “your” money… you are all in a vibrational agreement right now, yet your NEEDS and desires within this vibrational alignment slightly vary. This is why it is necessary to mix it up a bit throughout your lifetime. Relationships end, jobs change, your TASTES and preferences even change throughout your lifetime, as you are choosing to experience slightly different variations from the previous preferences you chose, and so on.
So, these jobs and obligations you have created may or may not continue to closely vibrate in alignment with your current desires. Now, what to do when your desires and choices change, and yet your circumstances have not “caught up” with this vibration, yes? What to do when you still have obligations of the “old” you, while you are now making a “new” you?
This is where you find yourself now, and it is where you are stamping your foot and saying “why do I need to do this thing, I am no longer vibrating there, get me out of this, I am bored, I am disinterested, I am….. etc.”
What we are telling you now is important for you to understand and to FEEL DEEPLY, so please stay focused with us closely now…
WHEN YOUR DESIRE AND BELIEF IN THAT DESIRE CHANGES, SO DO YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES.
Sit with that a moment. Let it sink in. So, who controls this? You do, of course. So, how does this answer your immediate question? Sit with this idea that your desire is CURRENTLY different than it was when you went into this original agreement and obligation with “others” on this plane of shared existence…
Now, enfold the other participants of this “old game” into your circle of new-found belief in your new-found desires. See it as a mental game, but also feel it as an emotional exchange of energies. In other words, FEEL IT.
Invite them in, explain to them, on a mental and emotional plane of existence, how your desires are no longer in alignment with your original agreement. Thank them for being there when you vibrated more closely with this old desire, and ask them to release you from any pain or suffering or overwork that you might have previously asked for, in this obligation. Then tell them exactly what you would now like to occur.
Realize, of course, that you will be communicating with their highest selves in an emotional and energetic exchange such as this. They do not need to hear these words with their human’s ears.
Do not make excuses when you communicate this. Do not revert into “I am so sorry I am not able to meet this commitment…” or “please forgive me for no longer wanting this…” or even something like “I will continue to work for you, even though I hate it…” and such. None of this is helpful and actually pulls the energy in conflicting directions and confuses everyone involved.
Do not be worried that, in doing this, you will instantly be fired from your jobs <laughter> Humans love to worry about things such as this. You are not reneging on your original agreement or obligations, you are simply explaining to them that you are no longer in alignment with them on this level of creation, and that you will be now focusing much of your attention and energy onto that which you ARE now desiring and creating. They will NOT be angry with you! You are talking with their highest selves, who understand this completely. In fact, you may feel a “thank you” coming from them. As in, “we understand one another more now, this is always good”.
Now, as to whether you should “work hard” or “do what you do not like to do to bring in money” and other such nonsense, we must ask you… why do you cling to such beliefs? It does not serve you, or anyone. It is a belief from MANY generations before yours and does not need to spend one moment more in your own belief system.
Let us break it down even more specifically.
Question: Do you need to get work ready for your classes for this week?
Answer: As I am indeed going to honor my obligations at this time, I will do it to my fullest ability and joy.
Question: does it need to take a long time and be a difficult process? Answer: of course not. It can take as much time and energy or as little time and energy as you wish, and you can have a WONDERFUL pile of information to teach these classes, in a very short and sweet amount of preparation time.
Do you see how you clump one “negative” assumption with another and another until your.. what we will now call “belief clumps” begin to cluster together? They form twistedness within your energy, and may be why some say their thoughts are “twisted”. It is true that the energies get confused when you pull them and twist them here and there and do not OWN UP TO YOUR TRUTH OF WHAT YOU TRULY DESIRE.
Excuses of “I must do this and it must be hard in order to gain material wealth” is an example of several beliefs twisted together to form a new “stronger” belief. The reason we say it is seen or felt as ‘stronger” is that you have built up an entire set of “proofs” that it is so. You have again and again given yourself examples that this belief system is FIRMLY in place. You do this for so long that you forget that you had anything to do with the creation of it, so you say “that’s the way it is” and grumble through that which you do not want to do!
May we make this one simple suggestion for today… after doing what we have suggested above, simply say to yourself “I am ready to get this work done quickly, easily, and the best for all” or some such variation of a positive phrasing, and then simply do it, watch it play out easily and quickly. AND HERE IS THE IMPORTANT PART.. as you are doing it, focus ALL OF YOUR ENERGY OF LOVE AND FOCUS UPON IT. If you are wanting to be independently wealthy (instead of doing this type of work in the future), for example… then when you are doing this… what we will now call “temporary work” (which describes doing work that is not fully in alignment with your current desires, but work that you have agreed to perform)…. When you are doing such work, instead of either grumbling through it or doing it half-assed, or trying to hurry up and get back to something you enjoy… do this…
Do the work, WITH THE FULL PARTICIPATION OF YOUR HIGHEST SELF, allow this highest self to make the quickest and easiest path for this work to complete itself.. and your “part” is to be relaxed, OPEN TO RECEIVING, and… TO POUR LOVE FROM YOUR ENTIRE SELF INTO THIS PROJECT. DO NOT be thinking of something else, or trying to distract yourself from it. BE FULLY FOCUSED, IN LOVE, ON THIS PROJECT, KNOWING THAT WHILE YOU ARE JOYFUL AND LOVING IN THIS MOMENT, WHILE PERFORMING THE PREVIOUSLY-AGREED-UPON OBLIGATION, THAT YOU ARE BRINGING YOUR NEW DESIRE TO YOU EVEN FASTER AND MORE EFFICIENTLY AND THE BEST FOR ALL PARTIES INVOLVED.
You will find that not only does this “job” get done quickly, easily and with amazing results, but you feel glorious not only when it is done, but during the entire work itself. This might sound a bit like “fake it til you make it type of talk” but that is not what we are saying AT ALL. DO NOT FAKE IT! There is never a reason to fake joy! The only reason humans feel that joy needs to be faked is because they DO NOT FEEL THEY ARE CURRENTLY CREATING THEIR GREATEST DESIRES AND JOY OR THAT IT IS COMING TO THEM! Fake means “I know this isn’t coming so I might as well try to trick the universe into thinking that I am happy, then maybe I will be happy”. Nonsense.
ME: Wow, that’s a lot to digest… but I think it will be good… I’m going to go and do it and we will talk again later today, okay?
SAM: it is our pleasure. And while you are doing this, remember to keep yourself in a state of pure bliss and joy and do NOT revert to thinking “this sucks”, or “I wish I could hurry and get this done” or anything such as this. If you do, forgive yourself, and get back to bliss. It will make a huge difference in the outcome of this experiment.